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Re: Is this an overreaction and a violation of rights?
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Mon, 23 Sep 2002 16:58:45 GMT
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In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Frank Filz writes:
> Frank Filz wrote:
> > 
> > I'm not sure why I continue debating here.
> 
> After a brief thought, and remembering from a class I took yesterday on
> the Meyers Briggs Type Indicator, I was just thinking of something that
> might be useful to add here about my debating style. As an ENFP, my way
> of working through problems is to voice them out, so just because I have
> said something, doesn't mean that that's my final reasoned answer. Of
> course this is what I wish .debate could be, and opportunity to work
> through issues by sharing thoughts and creating a dialog which helps me
> reach a decision. It can happen, but I have seen less and less of it,
> and more attacking of individuals.

Did you feel like I was attacking you?  I was kind of perplexed at your
response to my response, but to see this actually worries me.  I thought
that we _were_ working through an issue by sharing our thoughts in a dialog.
Maybe we have root-level misunderstandings that are getting in the way of
productive dialog.

I in no way meant to be berating you or otherwise hostile.  Was it the crazy
thing?  I was kidding around.  But I do have a stance and I expressed it.
Do you discount my analogy to shark attack as an example of highly
noteworthy tiny statistics?

Sorry,

Chris



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  Re: Is this an overreaction and a violation of rights?
 
(...) I did feel attacked. I know I am quick to react when I feel attacked (one definite correlation with ENFP), and have probably overreacted here. I'm not sure that we have root-level misunderstandings, but more that we have percieved different (...) (24 years ago, 23-Sep-02, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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  Re: Is this an overreaction and a violation of rights?
 
(...) After a brief thought, and remembering from a class I took yesterday on the Meyers Briggs Type Indicator, I was just thinking of something that might be useful to add here about my debating style. As an ENFP, my way of working through problems (...) (24 years ago, 23-Sep-02, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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