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Re: No promises when I'll be done, but...
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Date: 
Tue, 17 Oct 2000 20:20:46 GMT
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On Tue, 17 Oct 2000 19:28:01 GMT, "Shiri Dori" <shirid@hotmail.com>
wrote:

In lugnet.space, Matthew Moulton writes:
Sorry I tarnished anyone's tin God.  Why don't you give it a rest
though, let him REST for God sakes.

I can't believe you're actually saying this. Haven't you noticed YOU are the
one who's insulting him?

I'm not insulting him, I just wish you'd let the poor guy rest in
peace.  He isn't your tin God and you don't need to worship him like
you do.

On the contrary my site has gained much publicity and traffic, an
unforeseen side effect.

Wow. If this is the kind of publicity you wanted, well buddy, let me assure
you, you've got it. Personally though, I'm definitely not going to bother with
your models after I've heard your attitude.

That's because you're limited.  I mean take some great artist, say
Picasso, what if they were a complete a**hole?  Does that make their
work any less great?  Of course not.  You say you won't visit my site,
in what way do you think that bothers me?  I know my models are good,
I put them up in order to give other people ideas not to get something
back.  I don't GET anything from my site, YOU get something from it,
you only try to hurt yourself by threatening to not go there if I
don't share YOUR opinions and YOUR feelings.  I may have acted
somewhat rude, but at least I'm not acting childish Shiri.

As for alienating myself, well, I can't say I
much care.

Enjoy yourself.

Imagine how wonderful the world would be if we all thought like you,
shared only your opinions, only liked the things you did, gosh, what a
wonderful world it'd be then, huh?

If your friends aren't willing to accept and respect your
feelings and opinions then they aren't really your friends.

Yeah. Also, if you consider someone your friend, you'd try to give them your
opinions in a way that wouldn't insult them. Have you ever heard of
constructive criticism? Or, for that matter, of tact?

I did give constructive criticism.  If I had just said, "Oh well
you're an absolute waste when it comes to building anything with Lego"
THAT would be non constructive.  I simply stated that I had a fear
that whatever he was going to eventually come out with would not be
anything new or interesting to me.  AND ONLY ME!!!  I didn't say it
was your opinion, or that it was the opinion of everyone else, I said
it was MY opinion.  Are you saying I don't have a right to express my
opinions?  Even if they may make you feel bad?  Because if you are
what the hell do you think YOUR doing right now?

And you won't *make* yourself many friends by giving them your opinions in the
bluntest way possible.

I have friends who are like me, people who like their friends to be
completely open and honest.  I would hope that if I ever came up with
a Lego design that didn't look good people would say so and
specifically tell me why so that I could improve the idea and learn
from it.  Being coddled like an infant your entire life only results
in spoiled brats, inefficiency, a lack of will to try to make
something better than what you think you can do, etc, etc.

I have no fear of expressing the way I feel.

Obviously not.

Obviously you don't either, funny that.

I don't understand where all this hostility is coming from, but you have a
lot of growing up to do.

The irony of the situation makes what you said absolutely absurd.

Really? I don't see it.

*shakes head*
Legos = children/childish play thing (this is the general opinion
outside the Lego community)

You told me to grow up, which doesn't make a lot of sense considering
that what we do can be considered a form of play.  Get it now?

All I see is that you need to learn a little bit of
manners.

Gosh, imagine how perfect the world could be if everyone wasn't like
you and practiced what they preach.

-Matthew



Message has 2 Replies:
  Re: No promises when I'll be done, but...
 
(...) ... that's it! You no longer have the right to express your sucky opinions:) Whew ... I'm glad that's taken care off ... -- Pawel Oh yeah - EVERYONE HERE SUCKS!!! BTW - visit my site: (URL) (24 years ago, 17-Oct-00, to lugnet.space)
  Re: No promises when I'll be done, but...
 
(...) I used to be a fan of Matthew's weapons designs, but I'm afraid that I too am going to suffer, going forward, from limited interest in things Matthew says and creates. It's my own fault for not being able to ignore his rotten attitude, but I (...) (24 years ago, 17-Oct-00, to lugnet.space, lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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(...) I can't believe you're actually saying this. Haven't you noticed YOU are the one who's insulting him? (...) Wow. If this is the kind of publicity you wanted, well buddy, let me assure you, you've got it. Personally though, I'm definitely not (...) (24 years ago, 17-Oct-00, to lugnet.space)

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