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Re: Are we all too nice?
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lugnet.off-topic.debate
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Mon, 30 Oct 2000 01:57:29 GMT
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Christopher Weeks wrote:
> In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Selçuk Göre writes:
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> > I just give the example below:
> >
> > "Yeah, you are right, I already commented about your mother's sexual
> > abilities last week, but you know, it was on .flame, do not take it
> > seriously, so we are friends again right?"
> >
> > Wouldn't work.
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> This is absolutely true. If you write that (or worse) to/about me, I won't
> forget it and you will basically forever count as worthless in my book.
> And I won't ever seperate that from other contributions that you might
> make. I think this is the only strong argument against the creation of
> this group. (Actually, the only strong argument on either side.)
I hate to say it, but that's YOUR shortcoming (ignoring whether what the other
person said was proof a shortcoming or not).
I also take things personally....for a while. Usually a very short while. Rarely
a very long time. I don't think there's any person on Lugnet I've been ticked off
at for a very long time, nor one I've been ticked off at for more than a week at
most in the entire Lugnet history.
> But, if you don't want to read those kind notes, you don't have to. It seems
> like there are a bunch of weak (or potential) arguments in favor of the
> creation of such a group and two bigger arguments against: the one illustrated
> by Selçuk above, and the fact that it will take time.
Luckily, the time shouldn't be that much, and even if it were, it is CONSTRUCTIVE
time - any special filtering that Todd would have to put in place would be a
learning experience he could use in the future (in part or in whole) for other
groups.
I'm certainly for it, and might even read it from time to time. Heck, I might
even post. Most of my posts would be vents against TLG, not any particular
person, I would hope.
--
Tom Stangl
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