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Re: Sorry Anthony (was Re: Lugnet has a problem) plz read
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Date: 
Sun, 10 Jun 2001 17:13:23 GMT
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You know, I've tried to stay out of this, though I do have to say.

  Tom I would have thought better coming from you.  Anthony wasn't
'whining' about being ignored, he was simply stating a fact that is very
prevalent on this server.  People get ignored. I know I do, I'm one of
the best thread killers here.. I've learned if I'm tired of getting a
thread in my mailbox, just reply to it.. and it's over! check the stats
if you don't believe me I'm sure there's a way to do it.

I've been slapped in the face many times by people around here. I won't
go into who or why though I'll say they've surely reduced my input on
many things here, and these are people who I thought were my friends...
Most recently I got jumped on because I stated I didn't want wall packs
released, all of a sudden I was the anti-christ because I had a
different opinion than someone else. I've got a pretty thick skin so
this didn't even phase me really... at least it didn't feel like the
stabs in the back I've gotten from others..  I just walked away shaking
my head... and let them battle it out, I won't deal with that crap on
here anymore. I get enough crap in my everyday real life.. I don't come
here to get more.. I come here to escape it.. which isn't possible
lately :(


"Tom Stangl, VFAQman" wrote:

Anthony Sava wrote:

Unfortunately however, this does not change my views on Lugnet's problem.  Too
often my posts are ignored or looked over or battered, and I am not alone in
feeling that this is wrong.

Then grow up and deal with it, you're wrong.

Do you actually believe that people MUST read all of your (or anyone's) posts, and
comment on them, rather than "ignoring" them, or "looking over" them?

GROW UP, the world owes you NOTHING, you deserve NOTHING, you must earn it.

Hmmm how do you earn something when your ignored... interesting concept
there...

As for battering, seeing your replies to others....pot...kettle...black.

Granted, some things that have been said in these threads shouldn't have
been said.. Though throwing it in someone's face isn't the proper way to
deal with it either.

These other people (who's names I will not
divuldge) as well as myself feel that it's pointless to post anything anymore,
unless it's to announce something about our own websites.

Then DON'T.  Shut up, go away, it doesn't really matter.  If you run away crying,
you've most likely only hurt yourself, not anyone else.

No, this is NOT true, many people could/would be hurt by this, how many
times have you seen how someone else did something and learned a new way
of putting stuff together.. we are all here to help each other, and
GROW...

And so, with the
exception of this post, I shall take my indefinate leave of Lugnet, only coming
back to announce things about my own domain.  I'm sure I'll be a hypocrit
sometime in the future and reply to some post, it is inevitable, but on the
whole I shall not.

Buh-bye.

This I would really like to post something very nasty as a reply, though
I'll just bite my tongue.. and say that was rather rude.


Again, where do you get off basically demanding attention from all of us and crying
if you don't get it?  The nerve of you!  The world doesn't OWE you attention!

He was NOT demanding attention, if he wanted that there are many other
ways of getting it.. good, bad.. doesn't matter attention is attention
to anyone who really craves it.. just look at the example we have right
now in other threads...

Tom's answer just proves a point, everyone is so quick to jump...
Everyone should remember one thing, NEVER reply to a message when your
upset or angry.. walk away, think about it.. compose a message walk away
again, come back read it.. change it.. walk away, come back reread it..
if it's still how you feel, then post it.

Since I've decided to back Anthony in this, I might as well put up
another crucifix and join him since I'm sure that's where I'll end up..
not that I haven't already been up there for a while.. maybe this time I
can get a better view! Anthony wanna move over a bit? I'd like a view of
that lake :)


Tom Stangl

Tamyra <donning her flame retardant suit> Teed



Message has 3 Replies:
  Re: Sorry Anthony (was Re: Lugnet has a problem) plz read
 
(...) That's great advice. (...) Flaming cruxifixion? Seems a mixed metaphor... :-) Seriously, we've had some discussions about the phenomenon in the past. Lots of them. Is LUGNET cliqueish? It must be, I would think, unless it is unlike every other (...) (23 years ago, 10-Jun-01, to lugnet.off-topic.debate, lugnet.castle)
  Re: Sorry Anthony (was Re: Lugnet has a problem) plz read
 
(...) Mookie, who has ever stabbed YOU in the back? I can't even fathom this happening...I presume you mean creatively, etc. And I DO recall your comments about castle walls -- but then again, haven't you been using MOC stickers on walls? I am going (...) (23 years ago, 10-Jun-01, to lugnet.off-topic.debate, lugnet.castle)
  Re: Sorry Anthony (was Re: Lugnet has a problem) plz read
 
Mookie wrote: <snip> (...) Hi Tamyra, Actually I wouldn't have replied as the Tom's way, but my thoughts are pretty same about this kind of "cry baby attitude". Actually you already revealed the trick: "having a thicker skin". And not having great (...) (23 years ago, 11-Jun-01, to lugnet.off-topic.debate, lugnet.castle)

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  Re: Sorry Anthony (was Re: Lugnet has a problem) plz read
 
(...) Then grow up and deal with it, you're wrong. Do you actually believe that people MUST read all of your (or anyone's) posts, and comment on them, rather than "ignoring" them, or "looking over" them? GROW UP, the world owes you NOTHING, you (...) (23 years ago, 9-Jun-01, to lugnet.off-topic.debate, lugnet.castle)

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