To LUGNET HomepageTo LUGNET News HomepageTo LUGNET Guide Homepage
 Help on Searching
 
Post new message to lugnet.off-topic.debateOpen lugnet.off-topic.debate in your NNTP NewsreaderTo LUGNET News Traffic PageSign In (Members)
 Off-Topic / Debate / 10725
10724  |  10726
Subject: 
Re: Lugnet has a problem
Newsgroups: 
lugnet.off-topic.debate
Date: 
Sat, 9 Jun 2001 07:21:09 GMT
Viewed: 
440 times
  
Anthony (et al.),

I followed these posts-ALL OF THEM-and there was some really good talk on
all three sides of the fence (if you count those sittin' on the pickets-ouch!).

From a fresh perspective, I would like to say that no one in the thread
typed an offensive word...not Anthony with his original opinions through to
Jake with the reply where it all went south. That is
commendable...seriously! For a community where the only constant is the
participants mutual like of little plastic building bricks, the fact that we
all get along as well as we do normally is staggering! It takes a serious
breach of protocol, or offensive behavior to truly alienate a LUGNETer from
the group...it's rare, but it happens.

THIS IS NOT/SHOULD NOT BE ONE OF THOSE TIMES.

Anthony, take it from me (and you'll have to trust me here, I've been in
your shoes-check out the brew-ha-ha started and ended in THIS shameful
thread:http://news.lugnet.com/general/?n=30348) it is WAY too easy to get
the wrong impression of a person from a typed message, and to misinterpret
questions/differing viewpoints/criticism as ignorance of the thread/personal
attacks/flames/etc. The faceless nature of the Internet allows some people
to behave in repugnant ways...saying and doing things they would NEVER think
of saying or doing in the real world. But ask yourself...has anything like
that REALLY happened here? I don't believe it has, and I think most folks
would agree with me.

What this all boils down to is this: Anthony, go ahead, take a break from
LUGNET, think about what has happened here. The downtime might do you some
good. Go to your room...play with your toys (seriously..I mean that!). Come
back soon and find a thread that interests you and post once more. If
communnicating with folks on LUGNET is something you really, truly enjoy,
DON'T LET THIS INCIDENT STOP YOU FROM DOING SOMETHING THAT BRINGS YOU
PLEASURE. Why punish yourself with self-imposed quasi-banishment for what
amounts to a virtual nothing in the great big scheme of things?

Anyway, that's my 2¢ on this subject. I'll be happy here whether folks agree
with me or not...and isn't that what LUGNET is really all about?

Too tired to wax philosophic anymore tonight,

Matt



Message has 1 Reply:
  Re: Lugnet has a problem
 
Sage advice, Matt! Thanks for putting things in the proper perspective. As far as these old sets being released, I don't give a flying f*** as long as there's one Classic Space set released ;^) So, I didn't post a reply to Brad Justus's (...) (23 years ago, 9-Jun-01, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

Message is in Reply To:
  Lugnet has a problem
 
Lugnet has a problem. No one can have their own opinion if it differs from everyone elses. If they do, they are attacked. Read the posts that were in reply to my own, stating my discontent with the re-release of the Castle set the Guarded Inn. (...) (23 years ago, 9-Jun-01, to lugnet.castle, lugnet.general, lugnet.announce, lugnet.lego.direct) ! 

40 Messages in This Thread:






















Entire Thread on One Page:
Nested:  All | Brief | Compact | Dots
Linear:  All | Brief | Compact

This Message and its Replies on One Page:
Nested:  All | Brief | Compact | Dots
Linear:  All | Brief | Compact
    

Custom Search

©2005 LUGNET. All rights reserved. - hosted by steinbruch.info GbR