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Re: Girlfriends Guardians!!!
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lugnet.off-topic.debate
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Sat, 3 Nov 2001 11:05:59 GMT
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Hi Rick
This makes a change from Lar & Scott's continual bickering. ;)
My opinions:
1. Whatever decision you make should be in complete agreement with your GF &
should have the effect of improving your relationship. Think about what you
want & why you want it (be clear about your own motivations).
2. It will help your relationship with her family if you can understand them
more.
Remember that any ill feeling toward you is born of fear. They are not bad
or evil (1) people, they are just scared (scared of your GF being misled or
harmed?).
In trying to improve your relationship with them, try & put yourself in
there shoes.
Show them only love & compassion - not resentment or hostility.
Good luck.
(1) getting OT - IMO there is no such thing as evil people, only evil
actions. It is easier to justify killing 'evil people' than killing 'people,
fathers, brothers, sons'
Carl Watson
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Member #1165
http://www.lugnet.com/people/members/?m=1165
Adelaide LEGO Users Group
http://www.ozbricks.com/adelugs/
Rick Hallman <legodude725@removeaol.com> wrote in message
news:GM4yDK.JE9@lugnet.com...
> Hello.
> As some of you may or may not know, I am in a relationship where my
> girlfriend's guardians do not like me much, they have false accusations
> against me, and even filed a police report against me because they do not
> like me, the police report was proven entirely false as well, considering • it
> involved driving, and I am still not legal age to drive. My question is,
> does anybody have advice that might "break the ice" between me and her
> guardians. I wish to be able to be with my girlfriend more then just at
> Youth Group and our friends parties, but with her guardians not liking me,
> and not even knowing I do have a relationship with my girlfriend... (Her
> guardian would pull her immediatly out of the activities where we see each
> other). I need advice!
>
> Thanks in advance.
>
> Rick "Is feeling lonely because not being with his GF alot..." Hallman
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| (...) Care to elaborate on that? I've said in the past that most people are good, but I do acknowledge that there may be some that are not. It sounds like you think that no matter how much evil a person does, no matter how remorseless their actions, (...) (23 years ago, 3-Nov-01, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)
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| Hello. As some of you may or may not know, I am in a relationship where my girlfriend's guardians do not like me much, they have false accusations against me, and even filed a police report against me because they do not like me, the police report (...) (23 years ago, 1-Nov-01, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)
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