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Subject: 
Re: Family values?
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lugnet.off-topic.debate
Date: 
Mon, 8 Jan 2001 03:35:08 GMT
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In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Tom Stangl writes:
So the only one that isn't a victim is the non-biological father forced to pay
child support?

That's the largest pile of bovine dung I've ever heard!

No, I agree he's a victim too.  If anyone is not a victim in all this it would
be the mother, who should have informed both of her partners of the possibility
that either of them could be the father at the very beginning.

Maggie C.

Maggie Cambron wrote:

In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Tom Stangl writes:
He's not much of a victim - it was HIS choice to take the risk of causing a
pregnancy (even IF birth control methods were used) - no sympathy from me
there.

If he wasn't informed about the pregnancy in a timely manner and if he would
have willingly taken on the responsiblility had he known, I think it's fair
to say he's a victim in all this too.

Christopher Weeks wrote:

In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Dave Schuler writes:

we're talking about a man who has been
deceived--deliberately or not--into accepting financial and moral
responsibility for a deadbeat's offspring.

I think that something we've been forgetting is that the "deadbeat" might
very well be the victim too.  There is no knowing that he knows there is a
child in the world of his genetic lineage.



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  Re: Family values?
 
(...) pay (...) possibility (...) I don't usually do this, but... Yeah! What she said. I certainly never meant to imply that the false-father wasn't a vicitim. He's the worst one. Chris (23 years ago, 8-Jan-01, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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  Re: Family values?
 
So the only one that isn't a victim is the non-biological father forced to pay child support? That's the largest pile of bovine dung I've ever heard! (...) -- Tom Stangl ***(URL) Visual FAQ home ***(URL) Bay Area DSMs (23 years ago, 7-Jan-01, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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