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Re: Family values?
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Wed, 3 Jan 2001 21:45:23 GMT
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In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Maggie Cambron writes:
In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Tom Stangl writes:
Blood boiling because the "fathers" rightly think they owe nothing, or that
the courts still force them to pay?

Or blood boiling because these fathers find it so easy to suddenly detach
themselves from children they've thought of as their own for years with little
regard for their emotional and financial well-being?

  At the same time, though, what if the alleged father has biological
children of his own, and the financial burden of providing for someone
else's child has an adverse impact on the man's own children?
  You refer to these men as "these fathers," but in fact they are not.  I
believe that the majority of cases involve no deception, but for the sake of
argument, what recourse does a man have to prevent any woman with whom he's
had relations from assigning him the duties of fatherhood?  Is this truly
better for the children--that someone be duped into acting as a father?

     Dave!



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(...) little (...) Maybe he shouldn't plant the seed if he can't tend the garden. No really, the same could be said for the biological father of the child in question. He may not even know he is the father to this child and may have a family of his (...) (24 years ago, 3-Jan-01, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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(...) Or blood boiling because these fathers find it so easy to suddenly detach themselves from children they've thought of as their own for years with little regard for their emotional and financial well-being? Maggie C. (...) (24 years ago, 3-Jan-01, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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