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Re: Some Weird Action Team turns 4 years old!
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Wed, 16 Apr 2003 17:13:59 GMT
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In lugnet.general, Thomas Stangl writes:
BTW, I'd rather be someone's "major disappointment" with my <sarcasm> SO brutal ways
</sarcasm> and prepare them for life in the Real World, than have some innocent that
thinks the world owes them everything step out in the world and get run over by a
figurative Mack truck.  Tough Love, and all, you know.  Better a little pain in
preparation for the constant pain of Real Life than taking it all at once when they
leave their obviously sheltered life.

I am all for "keeping it real" in the sense that I don't care much for
'sugar coating' things, and I can get annoyed if I feel someone is always
'sugar coating' what they share with me (this happens a lot where I work
actually).  But at the same time, I disagree with the notion that Real Life
is somehow a horrible constant pain (as you imply).  In my experience, Real
Life can be an amazing, refreshing, and enlightening thing.  It can have as
many positive things as negative ones.  Part of me wonders whether the
apparent proliferation of the negative stems from those who have attitudes
that Real Life has to be so bad all the time.

-Hendo



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  Re: Some Weird Action Team turns 4 years old!
 
(...) I make my website for me. If folks don't like it, well, they don't have to surf to it. I also post here in LUGNET--again, in a newsgroup such as this, why get your knickers in a knot over what other folks say? Praise is nice but unnecessary. (...) (21 years ago, 16-Apr-03, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)
  Re: Some Weird Action Team turns 4 years old!
 
(...) Oh no, I don't consider it a constant pain in the way you are probably thinking. I think the Meaning of Life is to enjoy yourself as much as possible without hurting others (unless they like it <g>). But Daily Life IS constant pain. I'm not (...) (21 years ago, 16-Apr-03, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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  Re: Some Weird Action Team turns 4 years old!
 
Well, I'd say your reply pretty much proves my point. Unless you're on medication, you must be depressed/angry a lot, as you can't seem to handle the slightest bit of criticism or controversy. I stand by my initial statement (though it was a bit of (...) (21 years ago, 16-Apr-03, to lugnet.general)

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