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Subject: 
Re: Calling it Quits
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lugnet.admin.general, lugnet.off-topic.fun
Date: 
Mon, 26 Mar 2001 15:18:28 GMT
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In lugnet.admin.general, Frank Filz writes:
Tim Courtney wrote:

In lugnet.admin.general, Richard Noeckel writes:

Secondly, it’s not cool when several people whom appear to be concerned get
degradedly referred to as “suckers.”

Its also sad April Fools Day is on the American calendar.  What are those
guys thinking?  And under no circumstances is it acceptable to play an April
Fools' joke a week ahead, never.

I certainly don't think that April Fools day should be canceled. What I
am concerned is that with electronic communication amongst relative
strangers, hoaxes lose something. With the face to face April Fools
jokes of my childhood, one had all sorts of non-verbal clues from ones
parents, siblings, or friends which result in getting the joke fairly
quickly. Even in a print media, there are often subtle or not so subtle
clues (like different fonts, or a change in the magazine title).

I had been writing an essay for my
Politic Science class when I saw the massage on the ‘Top Stories’ board. I
was concerned, and in now way cynical at the time, I simply wanted to help
Mark out! I had no idea that I would be insulted :(

Dude, R-E-L-A-X.  Mark IM'ed me with the url for the post, and I was stunned
and troubled at first.  Then I realized what time of year it was, what kind
of guy I know Mark to be, and he kindly pointed out it spelled 'APRIL FOOLS'
vertically and the FUT was set to o-t.fun.  Now, if someone were really
going into a Dark Ages, would they FUT to o-t.fun?  Learn to laugh at
yourself, I sure laughed at myself once I figured it out.  Its funny, you
know, humor.  As for being insulted, well, that's your choice.

Insults take two people. Yes, one can chose not to be insulted, but the
one delivering the insult isn't blameless (and your last sentence there
is certainly insulting, you are in effect saying that Richard is a
lesser person because he was insulted by this mess, consider what you
have just said).

Doesn't stop it from being funny.  Lighten up.

It's funny to you because you know Mark. It's not funny to someone else
who is just starting to come out of their cocoon here, and showed
genuine concern for someone giving it up, and then getting slammed for
it.

On the other hand, you are right. We should all lighten up, and some of
the folks who could stand to lighten up are the ones who jump on folks
because the got upset about something. There are many factors which can
upset people (who knows, someone may have gotten deeply offended by this
whole mess because they are still coming to grips with a friend who
committed suicide because they felt unappreciated by the world, just
because their hobbies and interests were fringe). Realize that people
come here for a variety of reasons and with various backgrounds.


Thanks for raising those last points about "show[ing] genuine concern for
someone giving it up, and then getting slammed for it."   And   "[r]ealize
that people come here for a variety of reasons and with various backgrounds."

Indeed, the joke was clever and funny, and now I know more about this
Admiral guy than I wanted... but the additional comments were what ruined it
IMO! However, I still enjoy April fools, and jokes are cool with me as long
as nobody looses an arm.

--
Sincerely,

                              --==Richard==--


You can reach me @ SHROUD_OF_KUNG_FU@Hotmail.com



-Lego good, Canada great-®



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(...) I certainly don't think that April Fools day should be canceled. What I am concerned is that with electronic communication amongst relative strangers, hoaxes lose something. With the face to face April Fools jokes of my childhood, one had all (...) (24 years ago, 26-Mar-01, to lugnet.admin.general, lugnet.off-topic.fun)

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