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Subject: 
Re: Apology.
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lugnet.off-topic.debate
Date: 
Fri, 23 Nov 2001 21:54:25 GMT
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In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Larry Pieniazek writes:
You may resubscribe if you wish and I won't unsubscribe you again... until
and unless you call it junk email again. Because junk mail is unwanted mail,
at which point I will again unsubscribe you if I can determine the ID you
subscribed under, or publicly call you on it if I can't.

Doesn't that invalidate your apology? Aren't you just saying "I'd do it
again in a heartbeat?" Do you have the right to excersize that power over
Scott's email account, regardless of whether or not he wants it? Maybe if
you asked him beforehand, sure. But who are you to excersize this power? If
I think that you don't want to be subscribed, should I sign you off? What if
my method for figuring out whether you *want* to or not is faulty? What if
it's completely off base? What if I think by posting them to a public forum
that you don't deserve it and thereby take you off? What if I'm just bored
and figure taking you off the list would be entertaining? Until you've been
*asked*, I don't think you should.

I sincerely believed I did you a service by removing you from a list you
stated you did not wish to be on which was sending you material you stated
you did not wish to get. Or were those statements of yours lies? If so,
again, I apologise.

What's this? Relative morality? Judgement by intent? Your intentions were
good so you're AOK? (sorry, couldn't resist)

DaveE



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  Re: Apology.
 
(...) No, judge the outcome. He said it was junk. He said he didn't subscribe to it. He said he didn't want it. I acted based on that. I acted to ensure he wouldn't get something he said he didn't want. The *outcome* is he's not getting it any more, (...) (23 years ago, 23-Nov-01, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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  Apology.
 
I apologise. It was forward of me to try to assist you and I regret any inconvenience it may have caused you, because your words did not match your desires, and I made the mistake of taking you at your word, something I promise I will be more (...) (23 years ago, 23-Nov-01, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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