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Re: Parental Responsibilites (was: Megan's Law, and its implications)
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lugnet.off-topic.debate
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Fri, 28 Mar 2003 02:02:05 GMT
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In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Frank Filz writes:
> Christopher Weeks wrote:
> I think part of what I'm looking for is how do we judge (I think
> we have to have some basis for judgement, at least if we at all hold
> that there are times when it is reasonable to demand a parent give up
> responsibility for their child).
> I'm
> inclined to think that the minimum owed to a child is sufficiently
> nutritious food, some minimal level of healthcare, and some minimal
> standard of clothing and housing.
Yeah, that's tough. One big problem with this is that the wants of the child
will often disagree with the thoughts of society on what should happen.
Children, even fairly abused children, usually don't want to be seperated from
their parents.
But I'd say that kids are better off in families where the three above stated
criteria are neglected a little and the kids are respected and loved than they
are in a family with wealthy parents who are largely absent and self-absorbed.
And how do you measure love, affection, and respect?
> Do you owe your kid braces before you
> can have a BMW for yourself (I'd like to think that a good parent would
> choose the braces, but is that a must?)?
Dunno. Sometimes a BMW (and other forms of status display) may be needed for
certain kinds of jobs. And while occasionally braces are medically required,
most of the time they're cosmetic and can be done to adults as well. It's not
like you're failing to provide an apendectomy.
> Hmm, thinking of differing wealth levels, I think there is a point of
> semi-independance where the parents can demand something in return for
> some of what they give.
I think it's OK to pay kids for work. But that should be above and beyond the
spending power that is the kids' by right.
> For example, I think it is reasonable that a
> parent who is able does owe their kids at least some support for
> college, but I also think they can demand a certain minimal performance.
I'm conflicted on this one. I thought it was great for me that I was required
to get big loans for college, but I _am_ growing weary of repayment. I wonder
what is best for the young on some issues.
Chris
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