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Re: Since Eric brought it up...
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Sat, 8 Feb 2003 05:02:23 GMT
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In lugnet.build.mecha, Eric Sophie writes:
> Dave, I wouldn't be human if I didn't understand. My heart goes out to you
> and your family. I breifly met your wife once, and my impression was that
> she is a sweetheart.
She is
> Dave, aside from that, you could do simple things to avoid this kind of
> reaction from me.
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> Point in case:
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> You could simply remove the line on the side bar that says:
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> "...expect (MOTW's) return in early December."
Done. In my defense, I did update this earlier today before I posted any
messages.
> Aside from the quality of the sidebar, my concern is your spreading yourself
> thin and your not maintianing a dialog with the commuinty.
Of course I maintain a dialog with the community. The reason you don't hear
much from me here is that I tend to lend my support where it's needed most
and right now BZPower has many new, young builders that Lugnet does not.
They need encouragement and links to the inspirations that are already here
at Lugnet. You do a fantastic job of maintaining the dialog with the AFOLs
in .build.mecha and I see no need to mess with that.
> I too keep many of my woes private. I think you would have to pull up a
> peice of the floor if I told you some of the things that have been happening
> to me and that I continue to struggle with.
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> Fact is you have responsibilities here, keep in touch with us, tell us you
> won't be around for a while. If your heart can't take letting us know
> something is wrong. Keep the side bar free of expectations that physically
> tie you down, remove specific statments and dates.
Fair enough. I'll change the sidebar again next week if I recieve no more
nominations and remove MoTW and I'll try something else in it's place.
> Dave, you know I'm passionate, you know I give alot of myself in my caring.
> If you ever need help, I am here as well as many other good natured people.
> Not telling us, or rather not doing anything to maintain the side bar as
> curator is just gonna piss me off. Especially with all the hassle the
> initial issue generated.
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> I'll end this by saying, People are more important than some side bar or a
> hunk of ABS. I am real as are my feelings for everyone.
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> I got pissed becuase I wonder if you realize that people expect things of
> you as curator. Say "expect MOTW's return in December" and I'm gonna look
> foward to it. Don't do it and I'm gonna be dissapointed. Don't remove the
> words and I wonder why you are ignoring us. After 4 months I'm gonna be annoyed.
I, too, was looking forward to the update, but without nominees for MoTW,
it's just not something that should take up the sidebar. I'd love to add in
other things, but I'm not getting the kind of email I got last year that
were full of new and innovative ideas to add to the sidebar. Consequently,
that gives the appearance that I'm not keeping up with my duties when, in
fact, there are no duties to keep up with.
> In the end I hope you will accept my appologies, I had no idea of the issues
> you and you family were facing. I then ask you for the same respect and know
> that people look to you to keep the ball rolling. Maintian a dialog with the
> community you represent and I gaurantee we'll be there for you no matter what.
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> Sincerly,
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> Eric Sophie
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> P.S. Just so all of you know, Dave is the ONLY person to whom I have ever
> dedicated a Mecha too. I still have my love for Dave evan if he is not as
> verbose as my clowny self. ;)
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> I'm such a Cunning Linguist.
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> Oh, Oh, I forgot to say. When tough things happen to Lugnetters, the pouring
> out of support in this community is phenomenal. I urge people to take heart
> and come to us if you feel it is right and if you need help. Good people can
> be a source of comfort.
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> Of that I am sure.
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> Love,
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> e
Thanks, Eric, I really do appreciate the support.
-Dave
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| (...) Not really dude, your scarce around here, what I do is by personnal choice. Don't say because I already do that means you don't have too. Your invlovment is up to you. I just think you owe T-nice an appology for not supporting the Mechastruct (...) (22 years ago, 8-Feb-03, to lugnet.build.mecha)
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| Dave, I wouldn't be human if I didn't understand. My heart goes out to you and your family. I breifly met your wife once, and my impression was that she is a sweetheart. Dave, aside from that, you could do simple things to avoid this kind of (...) (22 years ago, 8-Feb-03, to lugnet.build.mecha)
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