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Re: Polyamory
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Date: 
Thu, 14 Dec 2000 16:22:55 GMT
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Kevin Wilson wrote:

> > works better for non-straight people? I can imagine there's less of the
> 
> From what I've seen, most poly people are bi, some are het, some are gay or
> lesbian. People who identify specifically as polyamorous tend to be either
> bi or het. Not sure why that is, whether gays and lesbians have enough to do
> dealing with one label without adding another, or what. I see a lot of
> polyamorous *behaviour* in the gay and lesbian communities without it being
> labelled as such.

While it may work better for "bent" (non-straight, bent, same derision implied)
people, polyamory certainly doesn't exclude "straight" people.  Men sharing
women while the women share men CAN work (not that I've tried it, but I wouldn't
exclude it from the possibilities if I found a man that I could completely trust
with my wife.  There's one man I would, but I have VERY high standards, and I
wouldn't hold him or my wife to standards that I wouldn't accept myself, and I'm
still too selfish a person at this time.).


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| Tom Stangl, Technical Support          Netscape Communications Corp
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  Re: Polyamory
 
Tom Stangl wrote in message <3A38F3DE.3C147982@n...pe.com>... (...) implied) (...) Not at all, and I hope I didn't imply that exclusion. Many poly people are het... just a majority of the ones I know identify themselves as bi. Kevin (26 years ago, 14-Dec-00, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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  Re: Polyamory
 
Dave Low wrote in message ... (...) Heheh. Might move them towards treating everyone the same, single or married! (...) There's a whole polyamory subculture. Try doing a Google search, there should be plenty of hits. I first came across the term (...) (26 years ago, 13-Dec-00, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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