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Re: Question for the Conservatives out there
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Date: 
Wed, 9 Jun 2004 22:05:54 GMT
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John wrote:

As recently as three generations ago, the nuclear family as a self-contained
unit was newish.  I don't assume that the nuclear family is the ultimate peak
of social development.  I also don't believe that society is in any
meaningful way "built" upon the nuclear family.

Well, ours is, and so is Western Culture in general.

Really?  Do tell...


The same logic could have
been used to fight the transition from extended family/clan compounds to
nuclear families.  I don't see any evidence that free and open sex would
disincent family raising -- I personally know a small handful of families
raising children in which the parents have sex regularly with people other
than their primary lover.  And finally even if you were right that people
would stop "raising" families, so what?

It wouldn't be the same society we have now.  I like it the way it is, and I
don't want to change it.  Neither do the vast majority of Americans.  You are
going to have to live with it or leave, because nobody wants to change to
accommodate {your} vision of society.

I don't exactly know what reality you live in anymore, John (if I ever did), but
I've got news for you - the Nuclear Family is a 20th C construct, and it is falling
by the wayside.  It is anything BUT the norm anymore.  While the majority of familes
{might} meet your Perfect Family Mold, it's only a matter of time (I say might
because I am too lazy to look up the latest census figures).

I seem to remember this argument coming up before here, and you're view of the US
was shot down pretty quickly.


All organisms "control" their
destinies as much as they are able.

Pardon?  "Control"?  Animals have no control-- they are governed by instinct.

What an absolute load of BS.



Why is it human, and not e.g. canine, to
suppress our "animal instincts"?

Animals {can't} suppress instinct.  We are able.

Even a lab rat can suppress instinct if given the right impetus.

As usual, the vast majority of words coming out of your mouth in here stink of
bovine-digested-grasses.


Honestly, I find this equivocation of humans and animals disturbing.  Say the
last tiger alive on earth was attacking me and would indeed kill me if you
didn't kill it first.  Would you?

It depends - would you also be the last other person in the world that I'd have to
talk to?  ;-)


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(...) Take a look around. I think you are denying the obvious. What would you assert the foundation of our society is? (...) (snip) (...) I didn't say it was the norm, just the foundation. (...) I doubt it. Cultures with strong, nuclear families (...) (20 years ago, 9-Jun-04, to lugnet.off-topic.debate, FTX)

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(...) Then we disagree. (...) Yes, but neither are you "all for" sex either, unless you are willing to advocate beastiality, incest, etc. You draw your lines, I draw mine. There is no difference except in degree. (...) Of course. Do you have another (...) (20 years ago, 9-Jun-04, to lugnet.off-topic.debate, FTX)

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