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Re: Lavender Brick Society
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lugnet.admin.suggestions, lugnet.fun.community, lugnet.off-topic.debate, lugnet.people, lugnet.org
Date: 
Thu, 16 Sep 2004 22:28:28 GMT
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In lugnet.admin.suggestions, Steve DeCraemer wrote:
In lugnet.admin.suggestions, Bruce Schlickbernd wrote:
In lugnet.admin.suggestions, Alfred Speredelozzi wrote:
In lugnet.admin.suggestions, Edward Welsh wrote:
I've been kicking an idea around for a while, and I wanted to put it out to the
community:  I'd like to start an organization for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and
transgendered (LGBT) AFOLs.  A lavender brick society, if you like.  >
-Teddy

Wow, lots of controversy here, Teddy!  I think this thread has really brought
out the homophobic in many AFOLs.

I've only followed this thread loosely, but I don't recall a single homophobic
response.  I don't have a single problem with gays, but I don't see the need for
a gay Lego sub-division any more than any other sub-division you wish to define
based on non-Lego related activities, and that's pretty much the response that
others have made.  Everything else gets thrown into off-topic, where there have
been discussion about gays before, and will no doubt happen again.  If it is
on-topic (i,e, about Lego) then if you want to build a ranch-house with two
women and only one bedroom in the layout, that would still go into Town, and if
you wanted to do the same with two men in a 11th century keep, that would go in
Castle.

-->Bruce<--


Nicely put Bruce.
  Let me put it this way.  I go to Brickfest and I see 280 lego enthusist.
Who's gay and who's not.  Hey is that chick straight or a lesbian?  Hey, that
guy over there kinda looks gay but I'm sure the hell not going to go over and
ask him.  Do you have any idea the kind of "guts" (not first choice of words) it
takes Teddy to even bring this up.  Think about it.  and if someone wants to
start a black group or a religious or a short people group let them.  What harm
will it do you.

Lots of people have said they are gay here on lugnet - doesn't seem to be a big
deal.  Of course, I suppose I'm used to my old home town of Long Beach,
California, which had a greater density of gays than San Francisco (or did -
don't keep up on that kinda thing).  Gay?  Yawn, no big deal.  Maybe somewhere
else it isn't such an easy topic.

As to a black or religious group, I have the exact same comments: deal with it
in off-topic if it has nothing to do with Lego, and if it is on-topic, then any
building project is most likely covered under one of the existing forums.

Starting a new discussion group: great, fine, more power to you.  I just don't
see the point of it on Lugnet.


Do you think that just because we might occasionally chat on
the lavender post that we'll never use any of the other chat sites again.  It's
not like we're leaving for good.  We just want someplace to call home. •   Teddy,
Major Kudo's man.  I hope they give it to you.  And I hope the first person who
wants a black posting gets theirs too.  Years ago I pulled up Ed Boxer's web
site (do you remember the castle?) and if you went into his other personal
photo's for other hobbies and pictures of family and friends you found out he
had a "significant other". I met Ed completely by chance and we've been good
friends since.  It would be so much easier if I could just go into a chat group
and know we're all playing on the same side of the fence. I certainly can't ask
it in general discussion, and sorry, I don't have the time to pull up everyones
website.

Signed, a gay lego atheist who builds cathedrals

I don't see the point of a Black forum on Lugnet, either.  What you really need
to do is say exactly why a lego.gay,etc forum is needed.  So far, it just seems
to be "I want to hook up with other gays" (I don't mean "hook-up" in any
perjorative fashion).  I haven't seen any Lego-specific reason for it.

As to finding out about others being gay, just take notes on this thread.  :-)

If everyone wants to show up at a Lego convention with a pink or lavender brick,
that's fine, too.  Doesn't seem to need a forum of its own to arrange that
(.events).

-->Bruce<--

-->Bruce<--



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(...) Nicely put Bruce. Let me put it this way. I go to Brickfest and I see 280 lego enthusist. Who's gay and who's not. Hey is that chick straight or a lesbian? Hey, that guy over there kinda looks gay but I'm sure the hell not going to go over and (...) (20 years ago, 16-Sep-04, to lugnet.admin.suggestions, lugnet.fun.community, lugnet.off-topic.debate, lugnet.people, lugnet.org)

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