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Subject: 
Re: Calling it Quits
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lugnet.admin.general
Date: 
Mon, 26 Mar 2001 14:12:13 GMT
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In lugnet.admin.general, Daniel Jassim writes:

Please consider these words of wisdom:

"I suggest every one try and remember one of the most important rules of
electronic communication:

If you are upset or angered by a post, mark it unread and come back in
an hour or the next day, or whatever, and decide if you are still upset
by the post before posting an angry reply."

Excellent advice (and ironic that you cited who you cited).

In this particular case, though, I think Frank *is* on to something. I think
in this electronic age, we go through the cycle of

-that's new, it's neat... wow, who'd have thunk of it!
-this fits into my routine now, and I enjoy it.
-this is kind of tired, I'm tired of it a bit.
-parodies and strife

faster than we did for older media...

I am not making any sweeping statement that things are at any particular
point but I too am worried. Now, it could be that this is just a stage and
there is no real problem here but things do seem to erupt more frequently,
and engender more hard feelings, than when Lugnet was fresh and new. Could
be a factor of the larger user base, or a factor of our having changed, or
who knows.

Feel free to let this slide as I am not sure there's anything to it.

But I understand why some people were perturbed by this particular joke (not
me, for once I suspected it was a joke right off the bat) and why some
people are perturbed that people are perturbed. But I don't think there's
any call for anyone giving anyone else a hard time about it. (and most
people, including you, Dan, aren't!!!)

If that makes any sense at all. I dunno. If I could put my finger on it
precisely, I would. It just makes me uneasy, like the Duplo Logo thing did a
while back. Maybe that means I have too much invested emotionally here,
because I want everything to be perfect. I dunno.

++Lar



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  Re: Calling it Quits
 
(...) And I strongly feel that this media lends itself to people acting in a manner they normally wouldn't in a face-to-face, real life situation (flaming. etc). Since computers create a safe distance, people start acting like they can say anything. (...) (23 years ago, 26-Mar-01, to lugnet.admin.general)

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  Re: Calling it Quits
 
(...) Frank Filz replied: (...) Please consider these words of wisdom: "I suggest every one try and remember one of the most important rules of electronic communication: If you are upset or angered by a post, mark it unread and come back in an hour (...) (23 years ago, 26-Mar-01, to lugnet.admin.general)

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