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Subject: 
My Stance
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lugnet.admin.general
Date: 
Thu, 19 Oct 2000 17:27:36 GMT
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moulton@[Spamless]hscis.net
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First off I would like to publicly apologize to Jude.  I do that more
for Jude than I do for me.  I killed my emotions a long time ago, so
sometimes it's hard to remember that everyone else still feels them.
I think the reason I picked Jude and the particular time was that if I
did it I wouldn't really be attacking anything.  Jude didn't have
anything on the webpage, I have no doubt that at some point there will
be many interesting additions to the Lego community and I wouldn't
dare attack those.  As far as the rant on my site I saw myself doing
mostly the same thing.  Attacking what I considered to be the worst
designs.  That doesn't make it right either, but I felt that some
right may come of it in one form or another.  I mean to me a person
could attack the Behemoth on my site and I wouldn't mind.  Why?
Because it's vastly incomplete, needs to be redesigned to look
smoother, more fluid, and there are a lot of ideas that can still be
integrated into it.  And actually I haven't even done anything to the
interior yet.  To me attacking something that is unfinished isn't
really attacking anything.  I know others disagree with me on that and
I know that my opinions have the ability to hurt feelings.  Again, I
am sorry for that, I do not want to cause hurt feelings.  However I am
not sorry for what my actions caused.  Yes I was rude, yes I was
brash, yes I was opinionated, what did it bring?  A closer look at
yourselves.  I'm not going to lie to you, many people do not see me as
a nice person, I try to get people to think differently and sometimes
my methods are very fringe.  Did I deserve to get banned?  In your
minds I'd have to say yes.  I think that perhaps I hit a little too
close to home...in fact I think I hit it right on.  I knew what such
an action could bring, it was my choice, I have to face the
consequences for it.  Ask yourselves this though, did you want me
banned because I attacked Jude, or did you want me banned because of
my harsh opinions?

-Matthew



Message has 7 Replies:
  Re: My Stance
 
One thing that I would like to add is that if my posting privileges are reinstated I will only post updates about my webpage, nothing else. And only updates that do not undermine the harmony and sanctity of Lugnet and it's users. -Matthew (24 years ago, 19-Oct-00, to lugnet.admin.general)
  Re: My Stance
 
In lugnet.admin.general, Matthew Moulton writes: Ask yourselves this though, did you want me (...) You have a right to your opinions, be they harsh or not. You do have a responsibility, however (within this group at least), to state those opinions (...) (24 years ago, 19-Oct-00, to lugnet.admin.general)
  Re: My Stance
 
(...) Matthew, I have to admit I was mad and hurt. You do not have much of my respect right now considering the manner in which you pulled your 'stunt'. As far as you being banned, I am glad Todd did it and I am glad he is giving you the chance to (...) (24 years ago, 19-Oct-00, to lugnet.admin.general)
  Re: My Stance
 
"Matthew" <moulton@hscis.net> wrote in message news:39ef2b6f.137507...net.com... [snip] (...) While that is the truth, I think that there was way too much attacking on your part going on. Nevertheless, as you said, you were out to prove a point, and (...) (24 years ago, 19-Oct-00, to lugnet.admin.general)
  Re: My Stance
 
(...) Well, theres a start. An apology is only part of the act of contrition... one must strive to be better. Regarding emotions...I generally have the emotional range of a turnip, but that does not mean I can be offensive, callous, insensitive, and (...) (24 years ago, 19-Oct-00, to lugnet.admin.general)  
  Re: My Stance
 
In lugnet.admin.general, Matthew Moulton writes: <snip> Well, it may make me sound like a jerk, but your apology rings false and I think you're lying. I don't believe a word of it. You obviously have a certain degree of skill at word craft, and at (...) (24 years ago, 19-Oct-00, to lugnet.admin.general)
  Re: My Stance
 
(...) Remember all these? (URL) should had pick on me instead, but I don't have a page for you to pick on... ;) I have completely forgotten all that until the big bu-ha-ha shows up in the spotlight. (...) If you do that lying thing or the (...) (24 years ago, 20-Oct-00, to lugnet.admin.general)

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