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Re: Santorum Fails In His Effort To Pervert The Constitution
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Thu, 22 Jul 2004 21:26:32 GMT
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In lugnet.off-topic.debate, John Neal wrote:
   In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Thomas Stangl wrote:
   You’ve never said it in those exact words,

Thank you.

Shame on you for following Dubya’s lead. It is a mistake to pretend, because you have not made a statement using a specific phrase, that you therefore have not made an equivalent statement using other words. Dubya does this all the time: “If we’d had specific information about an attack on New York in September, we’d have acted.” No kidding. This is the exact kind of lawyer-ish equivocation that is most offensive about Dubya’s childish refusal to accept responsibility.

Whether or not your real-world views support this, your rhetoric in this forum has clearly indicated an intolerance for views that oppose your own. Based on an assessment of your arguments, it is not unreasonable to conclude that, given the choice, you would remove those views from public discussion.

Consider your refusal to allow that the marriage amendment may be a gay issue. Whether or not you consider it to be so is irrelevant; others, who have a far greater stake in the outcome than you or I, do identify it as a gay issue. Your utter rejection of that viewpoint is equivalent to removing the viewpoint from discussion, which is the kind of thing Tom was talking about.


  
   and you have several times tried to profess that you’re an open-minded person,

I believe I am.

With respect, I must contest that you display in this forum an unwillingness to imagine that viewpoints other than yours may be correct, especially if those viewpoints conflict with your aesthetic preferences. Additionally, you seem to be unable to accept the validity of beliefs that conflict with your own, to the point that you would prevent those beliefs from being considered. A more open-minded person would accept that different people have different viewpoints, and opposing viewpoints need not be condemned merely because they are held only by a tiny majority.

And for purposes of this example we can exclude such “yeah-buts” as people who wish to steal from or physically harm others, since that is an issue separate from discussions of viewpoint.

  
   I’d really, just once, like to hear a straight answer from you on what you have been dodging repeatedly in this thread - why, exactly, will same-sex marriage destroy the institution of marriage?

I have repeatedly stated that this is not a gay issue, but one of redefining the institution of marriage.

You have repeatedly said it, and we all understand that this is your view. However, you are apparently unable to accept that others see the issue differently. Can you at least acknowledge that some of us identify this as an issue of discrimination against gays? Even if you don’t agree, can you accept the existence of that assessment?

Conversely, I disagree with your formulation of the isssue, but I accept that it is your formulation. In contrast, you seem unwilling even to entertain the possibility of other interpretations, and this unwillingness is inconsistent with an open mind.

  
   Are you going to say that your marriage will fall apart if *gasp* 2 men or 2 women get married in some other state? Sheer idiocy!

Won’t affect my marriage at all. I believe it will screw up young minds who will go on to marry some day.

Exactly! You believe that this is the case, and now we’re getting somewhere. Present your arguments in support of this belief, rather than simply declaring that it is so, and then we can discuss it.

Dave!



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(...) Thank you. (...) I believe I am. (...) No, no, Tom. The MM would have a hard time with my beliefs-- I am hardly a schill for them! Merely because I am a Christian does not mean for a NY minute that I agree, especially politically with other (...) (20 years ago, 22-Jul-04, to lugnet.off-topic.debate, FTX)

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