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Re: The Brick Testament parts the Red Sea
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Date: 
Wed, 27 Nov 2002 21:36:19 GMT
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In lugnet.off-topic.debate, David Eaton writes:
> In lugnet.off-topic.debate, David Koudys writes:
> > And I believe that naive people need to be guided and not laughed at.  Who
> > here would point and snicker at someone who 'just got off the boat' into a
> > strange land where the rules and folks are unknown to him?  Who here, in a
> > similar situation, would appreciate a helping hand to guide him on his way,
> > instead of being ridiculed (albeit very tamely by you).  That's all--no
> > bigger than that.
> 
> Once, a long time ago, when my little sister was about 3 years old, she
> exclaimed "Ow! My feelings!". We found it hilarious. Still do. Should we not?
> 
> I think the point is not to belittle those who are naive, while still being
> able to find amusment in the situation. Heck, I laugh plenty enough at naive
> mistakes *I* make, why shouldn't I be able to laugh at others'? Just so long
> as it's understood that it's not *insulting* laughter. Difference between
> 'lauging with' and 'laughing at' I suppose. Personally, I took Larry's
> snicker to be laughing at the situation, rather than an insult to Ronald.
> And from his reply, it looks like that's the way Ronald felt as well.
> 
> DaveE

And b/w friends and family that's fully understood and there's no issues at
all!  My friends and myself have a huge 'banter' thing going on--any small
slip or gaffe in conversation generates lots of ridicule.  But that's
amongst friends--to have the same 'banteresque' manner with complete
strangers, who don't know you, is possibly not the best way of handling the
situation--stangers don't like being laughed at, even if it's a little sniker.

That's all I'm saying

Dave K



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  Re: The Brick Testament parts the Red Sea
 
(...) Once, a long time ago, when my little sister was about 3 years old, she exclaimed "Ow! My feelings!". We found it hilarious. Still do. Should we not? I think the point is not to belittle those who are naive, while still being able to find (...) (24 years ago, 27-Nov-02, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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