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Subject: 
Re: Larry's behaviour
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lugnet.off-topic.debate
Date: 
Tue, 23 Oct 2001 16:09:21 GMT
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In lugnet.off-topic.debate, David Eaton writes:
> In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Scott Arthur writes:
> > In lugnet.off-topic.debate, David Eaton writes:
> > > In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Scott Arthur writes:
> > > > > What do you mean acceptable?  I have accepted it.  And so have you, since you
> > > > > have no choice.  But I don't think it's constructive or nice, and I don't
> > > > > think it reflects well on Larry's manners.  But so what?
> > > > 
> > > > The more people that come to that conclusion the better as far as I am
> > > > concerned.
> > > 
> > > Ok, here's what I don't get. Better to what end?
> > 
> > Maybe because I think what he has done is wrong? Maybe I think that by not
> > sorting the situation that is worse? Maybe I think he should apoligaise?
> > Maybe he will? Who knows? Who cares?
> 
> That's not what I asked. I *KNOW* you think he should apoligaise. I *KNOW*
> why *YOU'RE* doing it. You're way too proud to bother giving it up. You're
> addicted to the idea that you'll win.

I have "won". The moment Larry called me a liar without basis I "won".

> But that's not what I asked. I asked
> why is it better that OTHER people come to the conclusion that Larry's
> actions don't reflect well on his manners?


I would have thought that was clear.

> As for "Who cares?", you do. He does. That's it. The rest of us have our own
> opinions about the two of you formulated on our own experiences based on our
> intereactoins. The only reason anyone else cares is that we're tired of
> seeing useless name calling cluttering o-t-debate, and want to read the
> worthwhile stuff. Name calling seems hardly worthwhile. That's why I asked.
> Why is it important that *WE* see your spats? Why *SHOULD* we care? You said
> we should, so tell me why.

See:
http://news.lugnet.com/off-topic/debate/?n=13906


> If your opinion is really a worthwhile one, then
> you can back it up. So, one more time, why do you think it's important that
> we hate Larry, for any reason but so we can all love you?

I do not hate anyone (honest). I do not want anyone to hate anyone. I view
the truth as a rubicon. If you think it is ok to pass that, that is up to
you. I do not. I think Larry should retract is statement. I think it is
important that he does. If I am lying, I think it is important that I
apologise. Those are my values.

If people think Larry is a donkey for not addressing this, that is good as:
1. It makes him more likely to address it.
2. It makes him less likely to do it gain.

Scott A


> 
> DaveE



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  Re: Larry's behaviour
 
(...) That's not what I asked. I *KNOW* you think he should apoligaise. I *KNOW* why *YOU'RE* doing it. You're way too proud to bother giving it up. You're addicted to the idea that you'll win. But that's not what I asked. I asked why is it better (...) (25 years ago, 23-Oct-01, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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