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Re: personal responsibility (was:Re: Why is AIDS such a big deal?)
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Date: 
Fri, 26 May 2000 17:46:02 GMT
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In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Dave Schuler writes:
In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Christopher L. Weeks writes:

Also, the whole scenario gets messed up with inscrutable
minutiae almost from the get-go: If I take an elevator to the ground level,
step to the curb outside, and am struck by an out-of-control car (or falling
piano, or whatever), am I more at fault than if I'd taken a different elevator
and reached the curb a few seconds after the accident?

No.  Of course not.  You are equally (that is to say fully?) responsible in
each instance.  In neither case is your death or survival exactly your fault,
but in both cases it was your responsibility to assure your safety.  And it was
the piano movers' responsibility not to drop the piano too, this is a perfect
illustration for why you must be responsible for yourself...no one else will
be.

Where is a line to be
drawn regarding one's "choices" in a situation?

What line is that?

Got it.  I wasn't seeing your distinction before, but now I understand.
Still, similar logic could be applied in order to condemn the consumption of
vegetable matter.

Well, not to sound too much a goombah, but I do think it a shame that I have to
destroy life to get along.  I don't stay up nights worrying about it, and I'm
not a fruititarian (like some folks) but I still think it's a shame.  I just
can't do anything about it.

I see what you're saying now; previously, though, the assertion was that
people were responsible for their circumstances even when they had no way to
be in control of those circumstances.  Extending this to children-and-parents
is just an extreme extension of that same reasoning.

I still think that people are responsible for their circumstances.
"Responsible for" and "the cause of" do not equate and are not interchangeable.
In all of our lives, there are aspects of our situation that are beyond our
control.  We are responsible for how we play the hand that we are dealt.  And I
don't think that I'm back-peddeling.

Any given person isn't at faulr for having parents who are impoverished, or
abusive, or ignorant, or retarded.  But they are responsible for how they let
it affect them - whether it's a positive or a negative effect.  They are
responsible for what they do with the all the time after they leave their
parents' care, and even when they leave their parents.

I'm not sure what we're arguing in this last bit.  Could you clear it up in
your next response?

I was trying to place the choice of parents somewhere on the responsibility
spectrum, and to do so I was playing on a potential interpretation of
"victim," that is, the subject of circumstances beyond one's control.

I see.

Chris



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  Re: personal responsibility (was:Re: Why is AIDS such a big deal?)
 
(...) Part of this was my error in blurring the relationship between "fault" and "responsibility." My feeling, though, is still that while we are primarily responsible for ourselves, we are also societally responsible for others. I don't think this (...) (24 years ago, 26-May-00, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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  Re: personal responsibility (was:Re: Why is AIDS such a big deal?)
 
(...) Heh. Not being *purposely* obtuse, though I was trying to extend your argument to (one of) its extreme conclusions. As I mentioned in a response to one of Frank's posts, I'm not comfortable with the latitude such words as "victim" and (...) (24 years ago, 26-May-00, to lugnet.off-topic.debate)

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