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Re: Lavender Brick Society
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Fri, 17 Sep 2004 20:31:06 GMT
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In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Bruce Schlickbernd wrote:
> In lugnet.off-topic.debate, John Neal wrote:
> > In lugnet.off-topic.debate, Bruce Schlickbernd wrote:
> >
> > > I take that comment I made about "no homophobic remarks" earlier in the
> > > thread back.
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> > Are you going to deny that the average heterosexual finds the thought of gay
> > sex repulsive? I've heard the same sentiment from (non-bi) gay men about
> > hetero-sex! And this has nothing to do with a pathologically diagnosed
> > phobia, so give the epithet "homophobe" a rest.
> >
> > [JOHN]
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> I heartily dislike accusations like homophobe or racist at the mere hint of
> disagreement - it is a dishonest form of argument by attack and intimidation.
> I don't use the words cheaply, in part so that when I do say it carries more
> weight.
>
> You have given a different emphasize to you statement above than you did
> originally: you originally said that heteros find gay's behaviour repulsive.
> I'm not interested in sexual activity with men - if you want to call that
> "repulsed", so be it. But that is not the same thing as finding what they do
> between themselves as repulsive.
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> -->Bruce<--
I'm kinda with Bruce o nthis one--I mean there are those who eat oysters.
Personally, I find for my dietary pleasures oysters ranking pretty much down
there with mud--For myself, me eating oysters is repulsive. I have, on the
other hand, been to many shin-dings where oysters were served and I didn't
really notice others partaking. Is much like beer--I find beer to be repugnant
to my taste buds--makes me want to throw up just 'cause of the taste. But I
don't notice, or even care to notice that all my friends love beer.
Now sex, imho, isn't a 'spectator sport' (though I'm sure the exhibitionists
think it is), so I don't frequent places and parties where explicit sexual
contact is displayed openly. That's just the kind of crowd I choose to hang
around. That said, whilst walking by the lake the other day, there were a few
couples, out of the various hundreds of couples I passed during my walkabout,
that were holding hands and, *gasp!*, were the same sex!!
Whatever.
I hope someday that these occurances become so 'background noise that they won't
even be worth mentioning in a little ancedote like this...
Dave K
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